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What I Now Appreciate

Salisbury

It is funny how you learn to appreciate things a little more when you get older.  I grew up in a small town right off the coast of Maryland.  When I was a child, I could not wait to get away from there.  It did not help that both of my parents were school teachers and knew everyone in town! I think they still do.  After I got out of college (the first time), I moved away from there so fast and never really looked back.  For many years, I did not even go home to visit.  My sister and I both live in the same city now so my parents used to always come and visit us.  Now that my parents have gotten older, my family and I take more trips back home to the shore.  The first time I went home after many years, I hardly recognized my little town.  Empty fields were now shopping centers.  There was actually traffic which I really do not remember! :-)  But as I continue to visit over the years, I have also learned to appreciate the little town that I could not wait to get away from as a child. » Read more..

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As I Get Older

I use social media, Facebook in particular, to connect with friends and network for business reasons so I hardly play any of the games or post anything too crazy in my status updates.  All of the messages you see that say copy and re-post if you agree sometime annoy me.  But the other day, I ran across one that made me stop and think for a second and I actually reposted it.  Here is what it said:

An old man once said, “There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don’t. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living.”~Re-post if you agree”

I reposted it because I actually did agree with this.  This is exactly one of the things that I spoke about in my first post “Oh Lordy, Look who’s Forty” about things just changing or needing to change once I reached forty.  After having many loved ones pass away, I realized that being happy is more important to me than the trivial drama that people tend to bring to your lives at times.

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Oh Lordy! Look Who’s Forty!

40 shirt

I think I was going through a state of depression when I turned thirty.  At 29 I broke off my engagement of one year of a boyfriend I had been dating for four and found myself a single mother of a newborn baby.  All I kept thinking was, “I am not 20 anything anymore and on top of it all, I am someone’s mother!”  This was never the life I had dreamed of myself on my 30th birthday, which occurred 2 months after my son was born. After many nights of crying and consistently having wine on hand for emergencies, I decided to get up and get on with my life.  By all means, this little life now depends on me and to quote Whitney Houston from Waiting to Exhale, “I still look good!”

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